I might have a current fascination for M/M Romance, but I do read across genres, Fantasy, Sci-Fi, History, Contemporary, Murder Mysteries, Thrillers, and those other romance novels.
Is there a reason why authors use "lover" instead of "husband" for men legally married to men. In today's world, more states have legalized same sex marriages. When I read a married man calling his husband, "lover," I get thrown out of the story.
Maybe, I missed the point.